... can have several reasons:
- I do not quit because I 'm just somewhere else. Or for calls to mobile, is not with me in a room, I'm just not tuned or am in an important discussion vis-a-vis, and had to "Silent" geschaltet.Oder anywhere else where I can not telephone.
- I just do not have time, be it that I'm working, eating or sleeping (which is on call after 23:30 very likely, I am indeed really a night person, but also sometimes depends on the habits of the majority of my fellow human beings .). Or I'm doing "in family" or have visited.
- I have no desire to talk. Sounds silly, but I have times when I can not get more than the bare minimum on the lips. So, I can not and will not change.
- I just want to not be disturbed, except in emergencies. (Specifically for after midnight, even if I still should be awake.)
emergencies I define as follows:
Any important date shifts, someone had an accident, goes into hospital is seriously ill, died or could die in the near future or otherwise needs help quickly. Or it's burning in my home!
The death of a hamster, budgerigar or other small animals are not make an emergency claim. Questions at the daily horoscope, readings, coffee grounds or the like fall for me not under the category of "emergency".
Very well are relationship problems, or acute attacks of heart pain as an emergency, unless , they connect at least once each week on.
If you have not reached me:
- for calls on the phone, you can leave a message on the mailbox. For this is there, but not to when you hear the announcement reflexively hang up. AB on the landline, I usually forget to turn on. Most people have my cell phone number anyway.
- it is very likely that 5 minutes later I still can not reach me. It does too little then, there in the 5-minute intervals to keep trying. As I said, if that's important ---> Mailbox
people end up, in one form or another several times become conspicuous, be it that they always call on some "important" and a pretext then do not come to the point and only make small talk, although I clearly said that I really just have no time or place a call but always dead of night, "just to chat times" , very quickly on my ignore list, that is, the contact is closed until further notice from me (long live the modern art). Take
's please do not personally (or maybe), but I am neither the information nor the telephone counseling. But a normal person with many interests, a job that requires me a lot of self discipline, social contacts and family, which I will somehow live up to. And in between I also need from time to time some time to myself, to read, watch movies, listen to meditation music, magick, or just look stupid from washing.
ie not That I for the needs of my friends did not listen. If what really lies, then I leave everything behind and beat! All this means
not that I do not even like on the phone once, until the receiver, respectively, the headset is glowing. But all at the right time with the right people. * G * develop
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