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If I am not reachable by phone ...



... can have several reasons:

1. I do not quit because I 'm just somewhere else. Or for calls to mobile, is not with me in a room, I'm just not tuned or am in an important discussion vis-a-vis, and had to "Silent" geschaltet.Oder anywhere else where I can not telephone.
2. I just do not have time, be it that I'm working, eating or sleeping (which is on call after 23:30 very likely, I am indeed really a night person, but also sometimes depends on the habits of the majority of my fellow human beings .).
Or I'm doing "in family" or have visited.
3. I have no desire to talk. Sounds silly, but I have times when I can not get more than the bare minimum on the lips. So, I can not and will not change.
4. I just want to not be disturbed, except in emergencies. (Specifically for after midnight, even if I still should be awake.)

emergencies I define as follows:
Any important date shifts, someone had an accident, goes into hospital is seriously ill, died or could die in the near future or otherwise needs help quickly. Or it's burning in my home!
The death of a hamster, budgerigar or other small animals are not make an emergency claim. Questions at the daily horoscope, readings, coffee grounds or the like fall for me not under the category of "emergency".
Very well are relationship problems, or acute attacks of heart pain as an emergency, unless , they connect at least once each week on.

If you have not reached me:

1. for calls on the phone, you can leave a message on the mailbox. For this is there, but not to when you hear the announcement reflexively hang up. AB on the landline, I usually forget to turn on. Most people have my cell phone number anyway.
2. it is very likely that 5 minutes later I still can not reach me. It does too little then, there in the 5-minute intervals to keep trying. As I said, if that's important ---> Mailbox

Moreover
people end up, in one form or another several times become conspicuous, be it that they always call on some "important" and a pretext then do not come to the point and only make small talk, although I clearly said that I really just have no time or place a call but always dead of night, "just to chat times" , very quickly on my ignore list, that is, the contact is closed until further notice from me (long live the modern art). Take

's please do not personally (or maybe), but I am neither the information nor the telephone counseling. But a normal person with many interests, a job that requires me a lot of self discipline, social contacts and family, which I will somehow live up to. And in between I also need from time to time some time to myself, to read, watch movies, listen to meditation music, magick, or just look stupid from washing.



ie not That I for the needs of my friends did not listen. If what really lies, then I leave everything behind and beat! All this means
not that I do not even like on the phone once, until the receiver, respectively, the headset is glowing. But all at the right time with the right people. * G * develop

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high school and masters

last few months, a psychologist friend and I have a series of articles dealing with the almost unmanageable and very lucrative market for life consulting services. Once we have published (assuming we survive the extensive research work), I will make a brief summary and post here in my blog.

quasi a by-product thereof, is for me the analysis of, in many spiritual areas often encountered, teacher-student constellation dar.

First of all, to begin with:
In general, a spiritual teacher, nothing negative, although only just in the Western world has the connotation of the word guru often has a very derogatory connotation. This may be because traditionally, in Hinduism the teacher-student relationship involves a strange hierarchy for Central Europeans. The student will then speak servant of his guru and has to "work up" gradually, but receives in return just to get to the Möglichkkeit of his master. Such thinking is alien to us, although many trainees in the workplace with their masters and journeymen like today was made.
On the other hand, if you consider how little respect students and their teachers - and nothing else are in essence just gurus and lamas - in our schools have placed even more, even if only reward that those who make themselves the trouble, despite ostentatiously expressed indifference to convey course material surprised me this option just not too much.

It can be very useful, without question, learn from one more experienced in his field assistance and guidance, or simply just someone to have on the one can turn to with emerging issues. May be a constellation between Ratsuchedem and counselor of great benefit.
In Vajrayana, profane to us as Tibetan Buddhism called, Diamond vehicle (not to be confused with that of Ole Nydahl in the Western world, founded and propagated Diamond Way Buddhism. This is a completely different site!) Is the lama central linchpin .
Many other eastern directions, as in the Vedanta widespread system of Satsang, prefer the model of teacher (master, Guru) and students.

But no matter what system, the meaning of these models is to the student through the reflection the instruction and the provision of any necessary lessons from the teacher for his own deep knowledge and personal enlightenment, that is the awakening of the maximum potential of their own cause. In addition, the agency often comes certain techniques and skills through the Master, the pupil may be useful in this way. No more and no less.

Never such a relationship should, however, mean that the student almost to the power of the Master "dock" as, for example, a baby to his mother because of me or a client to a server.

to answer the question whether this model of mutual advantage is, there is one part of the quality and character of the master, particularly in regard to his motivation, on the other hand, the character and the needs of the student. A good teacher is there for his students, it provides guidance, but also makes him so much freedom, so he comes to his own knowledge and not in danger, to take over his teacher's simple. If this were the case, or he notices that it just comes to a dock on the part of the student described above, a good master will immediately dissociate and dissolve the relationship to close again.

After all, there are people who are only too happy to rid themselves of their ownership issued and subject and tend to take statements without reflection, just because they were bound by a master. These are then also which surprised quite react if the teacher does not specify them every step. Often they feel alone, rejected or neglected and often turn disappointed with their Lama, spiritual mentor or guru, and will seek to provide a teacher, this unconditional dependence is acceptable. This has the devastating effect that "create" such students immature perfect, so teachers who actually because of the degree of their own knowledge path are not in a position to teach students and thus also the honorary title of master, guru or lama who wrongly. There

And this kind of teachers, gurus, masters it. Them it is less a matter of bringing the students on their own path, but rather to instill in their path as the only right and move the student to apply it. And that can also within a particular system lead to considerable problems for the student.
The student must of never used to satisfy the ego of the master. A master of this kind is disclosed only that it lacks the necessary maturity and thus to the ability to teach shortage. In addition, these teachers are rarely prepared to Students from the ratio of dependence to fire again. However, this is essential when you consider that should be the purpose of helping the students also to the "championship".

But still lurks another danger. Even true champion they can not move people and by too great a proximity to a school, especially if this tends to be the teacher "to worship" the possibility exists that it loses traction and in the truest sense of the word gets a high fever.

little skeptical, I am also facing the fact, if a teacher or guru Lama gathered many students around.
course, there are excellent Masters of their craft, which are, if the opportunity opens, they may even live to see and hear in color and in particular worth to take a longer way to purchase and then it is hardly surprising that there will very many people come to share this experience.

However, with a much more intimate student-teacher ratio is not to be confused. How can this be accomplished when the champion after such an event just a brief moment, can spare time for his students, if any?

Hence, the mere quantity of the student body not as a measure of the quality a teacher apply. A spiritual guide is not a pop star, to be evaluated by whether he can fill halls, and students can not be seriously happy with where he shortly afterwards takes time to give "autographs" or to shake hands.

Frankly, I do not understand people who speak in such a serious case of "their" teacher, Lama, Guru or anything else.
It can not be satisfactory if you make up to his teacher only with the help of an opera glass on one of their own seat, far eintfernten stage and may otherwise rely only on the author of "their" teachers can literature.
own I own a considerable amount of books from their territory quite outstanding personalities and use it like as a catalyst and inspiration, but I would never think to call the authors as my teachers, just because of the personal aspect of this completely missing.

But to come back to the aspect which occur in relation to a master issued student back, which then leads to the fact that the ratio of teachers to normal again, or even necessarily have to finish.
Considering how traumatic this is for those seeking help in part, that has the disposition to be just to cling to someone so much, that he is ready for it, give yourself completely, and partly explains the many a bad injury for each teacher, master, guru or even for the whole group or the direction to which he belongs.
For an immature student, immature in the sense that he is growing the child's need for a guiding hand has not developed, then a "refusal" to be so offensive that this in downright hatred for the once-revered "father "manifests.

I can think personally a number of known examples, where students in some well-known spiritual teacher in a frenzy almost incestuous bondage to their Champion came from which they "escaped" only with great effort again and afterwards sought to blame only the opposite.
be good to point to said immature teachers, or even charlatans, come fall, that goal was the unconditional Abhängigmachung the student level, but equally likely is it that they were just victims of their false expectations of the teacher and not understood that this was reflected only what they radiated in his opinion, in turn, in the hope they would draw important lessons for themselves.

goes in no matter how harmonious teacher ratio is just without a certain critical distance from the teacher, Lama, Guru, his statements and teachings.

Despite maturity and level on the path to enlightenment or truth on my account, they remain human beings and they are extremely different, not only individually, but also very fallible. One can not stress this enough!

Caution is advised in my opinion, if someone only on each subject the statements of his llamas, or master the best and gives him to the mouth speaks, to be aware of the part without that and in some cases it neglected its own experience and knowledge, or - much worse - it keeps for his own opinion.
"My teacher says ...." - My Lama has formulated the so and so ... " - "My master makes it very differently."
In these and similar formulations in every other sentence, I am always very tame by comparison with the shake and not to shout: "And what do YOU do "

to mention how tiring it can get when the other person constantly records how, what a great number must master it, from whom he learned what it can all so - levitate, talk to dead to die and after three days rise again to drink himself to Buddha Gautama tea, etc. pp.
may be so, but so your students do not automatically also a superhero.
So little may serve a student to satisfy the ego of the master, little as it is the responsibility of a master by his mere reputation of the student to strengthen the ego.

looks similar to it, if a teacher or guru talks too much and takes the rambling monologue about his experiences and skills, making it, in my opinion, is looking to be heard. Maybe I'm

yes on the wrong track, but in my personal experience, people in the same measure in which they on their (spiritual) path is well advanced, always quiet, reserved and relaxed. Amazingly, it seems they take themselves too seriously and far less important than their native, according to some people, actually.

If you then approach them with a question, she texts a non-answer, but either very short and precise, or, with a question whose answer usually includes already the answer to the question.

This may be due to people coming to the simplest possible answer, look frustrating, but it also serves to that one, even and especially in a close teacher-student relationship, not forgotten how to think independently and autonomously.

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I always wonder why people make all have a huge problem?

in general and paganism in particular. If I so often hear or read, then I think you should come again on the carpet.

General:
If something bothers me, I do not complain to the Exodus, but the attempt to change for me. I'll wait then not until someone comes along and does it for me, but do it themselves must live with the consequences and then I can not just pass it on to others.
If I do not want to or afraid of the effort is indeed the right, only then I can not complain.
as simple as that!

Especially ™ for Pagan:
one hand, we railed against the Abrahamic religions of the second and third generation (ie Christianity and Islam), missionary work because so many places, see their thing as truth ™, on the other hand, the love Gentiles do the same in green.
Not only do they take care of seems more concerned with the affairs of the Christians and Muslims, as to their own beliefs, no, they must also find fault in the understanding of the faith of their own race around.
What really has it, tell other people to do what is true now paganism and what is not?

Slowly I can hear it any more. If interested in this?

aside time reveal that most of it a still deeply rooted dualistic thinking, true-false, good-evil. And, no, these are much good will it be designed not to polarize, ie dualism a unit , like two sides of a coin, but just the same kind of rock-hard black and white painting, the one with the mono heist's competitors always criticized.

given some thoughts on how the masses draws attention to himself, inspire "young people" for their own faith, how could it with the boat gets, etc.
Yes, great, we make it to youth groups, Asatru summer camps go on a Viking boat, and drinking horn carved with Edda readings Celtoi and-movie nights with Vertingetorix and Cuchulain or something similar for other faiths.
Am I glad that my "association" is only from 18 as of the Wiccan way, also ... Then

always been around the church exit.
people when I'm in a club, I do not want the support, then I step out there. And if it cost money, no matter whether it is morally acceptable or not, I'll pay and you're done. I would complain more than the people who have me into membership, so usually the parents. What can the church that have just decided so that their children there in good hands would?
And of course, turns the local council then again at these former members, whether he is the more superior to even want to have to even ex officio extent at least the salvation of the (former) take care of sheep and of course go the Krichen flutes by revenue but so what?
With me was still just a letter from my competent minister, whom I knew, moreover, did not even know the same also landed in the circular folder and then the matter was to eat for me. This may seem very small communities or certain sections differently, but they are happens to be the consequences to be expected. At some point, also give up when they realize that there's nothing left to break. So what?

Speaking consequences
When am I left the church or never was in it and then ask to get a job at an institution under church sponsorship, hello, I have to run now no more, right? Subsidies from public funds or not, but ... Eh ..
But even if you are still "in" is, and why ever not want to do is escape, but okay. was, quite apart from that it is an exit to a purely legal-formal act which is the baptism as such but purely theological, has.
In the words of my son "The Taufsiegel you get anyway, never again away, "
The question is since only whether you then the power of his own interpretation (or his will!) nor any significance can occur. What is your interested Göttter, the All-One, the universe, which in some baptismal register is? rituals are there for the people, not the people for the rituals.

Nor can I send my children to a church kindergarten or school, but also among government body responsible for running organizations of this kind, and complain then that There they are confronted with Christianity.
If I do not want that, then yes there a lot of alternatives, Waldorf and Co. make it possible. But this would require perhaps you are looking for something or go worse a few kilometers.
the way, the best recipe, his children from indoctrination to protect no matter from which direction, is to let them become free-thinking people. (I avoid here consciously "educate" the word!) It includes, in my opinion do not come to their ever-so how are crap but the other, and how great it is itself

given that some nations almost persecuted by Christians and Muslims feel. Well, surprise, are more dependent, as the bites no changing that, and apart from the fact that most of these Pöser Monos are about as religious as my Dog has me in the 44 years that I now live longer, never one of them the booth eingerannt to proselytize me. Okay, there was once a small episode, when I was living in Dusseldorf, with two Jehovah's Witnesses, which held the opinion that I had as a woman determined not to anyway, whether I need their salvation or not, but a "nice "Call has also clarified then.
But otherwise?

when this ceases, however, we are virtually surrounded by Abrahamites who want nothing more than either our soul or our death. Since then my posting their
I really question if I may live in a completely different universe?

any event, could assume at times almost, dissatisfaction with one's own situation and related destructive behaviors would systeminharänt in paganism ™ when it is not enough counter-examples were first and second, find this behavior not in the rest of the population prevalence would.

But just lately in paganism is something going on that I still do not understand einzuordenen right. However, that's already noticed a few friends, so I'm probably still on the fence all the slats.

Increasingly, one hears of "mobilization" and "Bereitsein for the real thing."
please?
I'm the last person who does not occasionally think about make the growing fundamentalism would, where my focus lies there on in Christianity, because that is overlooked so much for all the forced Islamistenparanioa, but I have not felt that I had to sleep at night with a loaded gun next to his pillow, because my neighbors are already planning a raid times.

Okay, when the now of any 14 - or 15 - would come years, I thought, who heard too much pagan metal, but a few acquaintances from the Forn Sidr here NRW told me that as recently very few adult figures were broken in a mortise so what. Can that possibly still safely ignore check off and when not treated subconscious trauma and recommend to the people of psychotherapy (does not come from me) there is probably something else in the bush.

dive Chance recently namely, people who talk about religious and cultural preservation and identity, a reminder of common roots in Europe. For them it is even paganism, which they define within such narrow limits as indigenous. So German American, Celtic, Slavic and, at best, even in Roman-Greco exceptions, but this mostly by embezzling the syncretic tendencies is romanticized.
then again reminds me somewhat of the dominant culture-idea our government, just only without C.

roots are important, no question. If I know where I come from, we would have immensely contribute to self-discovery process and can have a positive effect. Only when we are talking about the beautiful picture, a tree consists not only of roots, it grows even up to the light, spreads its branches out to all sides.

From time to time, then drops the term Pan movement and although I as funny as the first one had to think of Bacchanalia and cheerful flute music (yes, stupid link!), Trying steals while an undefined, yet very bad feeling in the abdominal region.

Short research showed, as in the above Wiki link ersehbar that this is to, by no means limited to paganism, aspirations is to abolish the present form of government in favor of ethnic-defined "cultural nations".

So, in plain language, each ethnic group gets a piece of the pie, where they can develop freely and independently.
condition would be there but one view, is that you filter the people first ethnic. Blessed is he who has received his pure family tree or are currently the ancestors pass from Grandpa has in the drawer. Which one would have to also introduce the same again, thanks for Migration, Huns and Mongol invasion and other military activities and occupation and the consequent Products horny warriors and soldiers, and in times of peace, merchant or sailor is likely to drop the unambiguous filing on their ethnicity but a bit difficult, even without all the other ways you can come to "foreign" genes.
But so closely see the Beführworter this movement is certainly not because ethnicity does not even only on the descent, but also putting a common culture, language, dress and religion. I said yes, it reminds me a little of what has Merkel, Horst Seehofer and Co. carved out only recently.

And there's just the rub for me.
It sounds naive for casual observer but quite harmless, if not (ostensibly) tolerant when someone talks about it, they wanted to give any culturally defined ethnic group has its own habitat.

Hooray, freedom for the Basques, Kurds and all the other ethnic minorities!
Once, for this approach is imperative if ethnic purge resettlement they can finally express their identity freely, without fear of any reprisals by dominant nations, they would certainly also include some new acquaintances with them lineage technically related peoples, because we were honestly, for every little people have their own state, which will be difficult if only for reasons of necessity autonomous functionality.

But as far as thinking the one who is confronted with the idea of this concept for the first time probably did not, especially not when he is anyway in their own country because of its trve-authentically indigenous faith and devotion to his ancestors out of place or discriminated against feels suffocated by the overwhelming power of the Christian majority, whose faith is as alien cultural view, and so sometimes just both measly 1500 years stamp of our culture and history through this foreign faith and the tiny fact that their own, highly revered ancestors very well Christians are often ignored, and in view of the "Islamic threat" threatened in its habitat, feels very rare.
He looks too may find that it covers not only a purely religious motives, is rather an essentially political movement.

And since the supporters of the Pan-nationalism him then to the eggs.
why the lengthy introduction!

In contrast to the brown Spacken with its sledgehammer tactics, they will attack them in the population and widespread fear that is latent with much defizileren intellectual resources. It is the aesthetic and philosophical, all decorated with Quotes from Socrates, Aristotheles, Norse mythology, Goethe and Levi, to Nitzsche. It praises the one hand, the free spirit, but demonized the individualism as selfishness , the equating simple with hedonism and endangers the community.
And, believe it or not, even Zen draws on you, as a quote:

[...] "a very attractive doctrine, because it allows endless studying ancient texts, the retreat from the world and hypocritical moralism humanism and strictly refuses to instead be limited to completely clear, in everyday life viable techniques. "

What was that again with ethnic and cultural boundaries?

In general, one will kill just to this particular Webpresenz of text, in part, in a beautiful, sophisticated language, not really obvious questionable content, but theories and axioms, which certainly have their validity, in between, but always a phrase, expression or some sentences are sprinkled, not to mention some glaring contradictions that stand in the volatile read not once, but still go into consciousness.
If one eye but just wish it, then free float in any case my neck stand up, because me as subliminal messages and a decent pressure in a certain Direction of thinking that grab the attention that I relish not just because it is so subtle and sweet as poison is administered in small doses.
All decorated with aesthetically beautiful images of ancient and neo-classical, somehow clinically pure that I involuntarily the saying "Mens sana in corpore sano" comes to mind. And just as this sentence is intended meaning, as it is taken out of context, so I Deucher where the remuneration to be an instrument intended meaning and to the philosophers.

This is not about heavy-handed racism, but in my view, in addition to the said establishment of ethnic cultural nations, the installation of an elite and by the vehement rejection of materialism and individualism made tolerant national community.
Strength through Joy ...

my opinion a very dangerous currents. Not least because it suggests those interested, also to be among this elite.
And who wants to not let anyone tell you like?
Honestly?
Until they awake from the dream beautiful view, and have that elite followers always an average, the mass needs of which they stand out and which can control it, should it then be too late for a possible reversal.


But everyone should own an opinion.


should be interesting in this respect, the concept of Pan- that one, I think, not without good reason or, as the example of me avoiding relied.